Carer Gemma is the first graduate from the Open University’s (OU) Carers Scholarships scheme. She graduated at the Birmingham Symphony Hall surrounded by her whole family and has a clear focus on her future as an advocate for severely disabled children and adults.
Caring for her 14-year-old son with severe cerebral palsy takes up most of mum Gemma’s day. He needs 24 hour a day support, and, while a team of support staff help out, Gemma is dedicated to giving her son the very best of care. She also spends time attending meetings and tribunals to ensure the best outcomes for her son’s health, education and development.
When she heard about the OU Carers Scholarships via an online advert she knew that she had to apply.
“Being awarded a scholarship would change the whole course and direction of my life, and the life of my family,” commented Gemma. “My dream is to become a lawyer and to advocate for individuals with disabilities. It could impact on the lives of many in a positive way.”
“My mission is to make a difference to people’s lives. I even wrote about that in an EMA on my course!”
As soon as she started the course, Gemma quickly realised how committed she was to her subjects and worked really hard to get a first in each module she took. She often studied in the middle of the night or early hours of the morning when there were two other carers to look after her son and she could concentrate on her work.
“Getting the best grades made me feel that I was doing justice to those who believed in me and awarded me the scholarship,” explained Gemma.
“My family were very encouraging and understanding, especially my husband,” said Gemma. “The children even helped by reminding me when my assignments were due and how many words I had completed of the assignment. I know that they believed in me and were incredibly supportive.”
“I can’t thank the OU enough. One of the Carers Champions was so helpful in my final year. When I was thinking of postponing, Juliet supported me so much and was there for me to talk to during difficult times when the care support was limited.
“The ability to have the opportunity to study alongside the caring role will provide change and make such a difference,” said Gemma. “It helps carers feel a sense of accomplishment.”
Gemma wanted to say to the supporters of the scheme, “Your donations make a massive difference. The life of a carer involves a lot of giving and to be given the opportunity to study can be very fulfilling for a carer, when accessing brick universities is not an option.” But this scholarship fund has meant that carers have a chance to focus on something alongside their caring role.”
Gemma’s dream is to become a barrister so she can support other families who are going through what her family has. As she says, “I want to make a difference to other families and give them the hope they so rightly deserve.”